03 mars 2015

I just want to tell You this

I just want to tell you this: I am an expert on being very ill and having to lie in bed. You are not. Even after you get up and get well after this, you still will be only an amateur at the game compared with us pros. Like any other business, or any unusual occupation, it’s a hell of a tough one to learn. But you know I’m convinced that it has its compensations — for someone like me it does anyway.
I doubt I would have written a line, or would have had the ability to write a line, unless some minor tragedy had sort of twisted my mind out of the normal rut. You of course were already a philosopher before you became ill. But I predict that you will emerge a double philosopher, and a super philosopher after all this is over. I emerged a tiny-philosopher, a fractional philosopher from nothing, so it stands to reason that you will advance from straight philosopher to super philosopher.
I mean this. I know that serious illness is a good thing for the mind. It is always worth it afterwards. There’s something of the yogi about it, with all its self-disciplines and horrors. And it’s one of the few experiences that you’d never had up to now. So take my view and be kind of thankful that it came. And if afterwards, it leaves you with an ache, or a pain, or a slight disability, as it does me, it doesn’t matter a damn; at least not to anyone but yourself. And as you’ve taught me so well, that is the only unimportant person — oneself.
Roald Dahl letter to Charles E. Marsh

What to do

What to do when home (from Abby Diamond):

—Cooperate don’t compete.
—Tell yourself “I love you.”
—Eat slowly.
—Drink a glass of water when you wake up and go to sleep.
—Trust abundance.
—Stretch in the morning.
—Fear means something great is about to happen.
—Listen to inspiring podcasts.
—Meditate.
—Reach out. Touch people.
—Lighten up.
—Enjoy what your company has to give.
—Keep a happiness project—read it!
—Give your creativity an outlet.
—What makes you grow? Do it, especially if you are scared to.
—Some scientists say 32 suns are born every second. Be open to possibility!
—Give spontaneous gifts.
—Cook for people.
—We are the ones who decide how to interpret our situations.
—Be where you are.